Suffering and Healing

Suffering and Healing

Suffering and Healing. People suffer in relationships. They heal too. But suffering and healing do not necessarily happen in that order. Physical abuse and marital rape are extreme forms of suffering that many people endure in their relationships. But suffering also happens when one partner is extremely selfish, narcissistic, or unaware of a partner’s emotional needs. Years of neglect and constant bickering can also result in a kind of suffering and it takes time to heal.

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Leaving The One I Love For His Good


leaving the one you love

It is a brilliant story of how we met and it is almost a story within a story. I had written a love story with a

psychological twist of leaving the one you love but a happy ending, and mailed it to the editor of a leading

newspaper. He wanted to meet me, to congratulate me on the piece.

This is what I call elation, the true definition of happiness, being appreciated for work. I sat at the tiny table and I looked into his eyes as he spoke about how well I had written it.

And all I did was gawk at him hungrily, as he spoke about how notorious his office staff were and that they

didn’t write well. I had forgotten the food, the noisy surroundings, and everything around me. I was framing

poetry in my head, and there were violins and symphonies. Little did I know, the story I had written of leaving

the love of your life, would soon turn into my very own story. Suffering and Healing 

The Story Of How I Left The Love Of My Life

It was love, I had realized soon after. I was enthralled with his work, his speech, and his active love for literature

and culture. I had never met a man more passionate, and this man touched me cerebrally.

I never got much of him; neither did I attempt to tell him about my feelings. We lived in different cities, and it

was impossible to meet him frequently. Seven months and I had seen him just thrice, and I knew this was the man I could never un-love even though leaving the love of my life was in my destiny later on. He had strung chords in my heart, that kept ringing even when he wasn’t with me anymore. Suffering and Healing 

He learned how I felt

He got to know about my feelings later, and he was surprised but didn’t react.  knew my parents would not approve of it. But he was in touch with me. Every month or so, one phone call dropped in and I was happily chatting with him.

leaving the love of your life
Leaving the one you love is the most heartbreaking thing ever

His fiancée received the call that I made and informed me that he had been in a car accident. After reading the letter, he seemed to be in a state of shock and was now in a coma. I was heartbroken and guilty.

Later he was out of danger, but I haven’t been able to contact him anymore. The fiancée informed me that he was repeating my name before going into a coma and that he confessed his love for me, many months back. The fiancée didn’t want me near him anymore. She asked me to leave. And I did. It was now time for me to be leaving a relationship for good and not look back.

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The love of my life is getting married

But there is one thing that is certain. That it wasn’t a one-sided love affair. Only very lucky people get the love of their lives and I had found mine. Our love story is one that I would live with, all my life. The feelings that I had for him, surpassed the ideologies of the society, right and wrong, and it challenged what we know as ideal. It was love that had no barriers.

I now smile whenever I think of him even though I left the love of my life. The pain of not being with him has been erased. I now know he was extremely fond of me, and that is more than a blessing for me. And thus with hope in heart, I continue to live despite leaving him for good. Suffering and Healing.

1. Is it okay to leave someone for their own good?

Yes. Leaving the one you love does not always have to be this horrible and ugly experience. Sometimes there is beauty to it, even when there is pain. you love someone, sometimes it is best to let them go 2. When should you let go of love?

When you know that the situation is wrongful or is only going to make your life unhappy or complicated in the long run. This does not mean that you love them any less. It just means that you are mature enough to take the step of leaving a relationship for good when you know that it is not worthwhile.


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